50: Hold on... I need to let go....

Now that you are gone... I miss you even more than before...

For the time we have spent comes splashing on the shore...

Each moment lived each moment spent...life to me had seemed so much in them...

Each of the places that we have been to....each of the miles that we have been through

Can they ever mean same again? Yes? No? Frankly I don’t know...

I had thought of holding onto you...till my last... And I couldn’t come to terms when you said ‘that’s all’...

You chose your path...you have right to do so...

Love is what we are made for ...and together our paths don’t go...

No regrets I keep... although I am in pieces...

For each single piece in me still feels blessed....

I have known you the most...not long I say...but most...

For things that we have shared made me complete almost....

I tell myself... it’s gonna be fine...

But far from reality I still feel you are mine...

I know there will come a day... Shaking me out of dream my eyes will say...

You are gone forever... and things are far from right...

But I can vouch for my heart that it will stand by me on that day...

Saying that you are gone but your memories are still in my sight!!!

(Its my serious try at writing poetries, do leave back your feedback...it will be much appreciated :D)

(its a personal creation, refrain from illegal copying of the contents.)

(http://verne10.wordpress.com/2011/02/28/hold-on-i-need-to-let-go/)

49: I wanna learn .. on my own..!!!

Sometimes I wonder how much spoon feeding should be done to a child...how much comfort zone should be provided to a child...

Ofcourse a parent takes care of his/her child but there is a very blur line that seperates care from spoon feeding. Care of a parent lies in making sure that child gets whatever he wishes for but at the same time learns from his/her mistakes and builds his/her own experience tree...while spoon feeding lies in making sure that the child gets whatever he/she wishes for while benefitting from the experience tree built by his/her parent...!!! A spoon fed child may lead a perfectly spotless life but maybe take that child out of his/her comfort zone and he/she may fumble big time...

Would like to live you with a line read somewhere:-

"Manzil to mil hi jayegi mujhe ek din chahe bhatak kar hi sahi... Gumrah to woh log he jo ghar se nikle hi nahi ..."