Do you face questions??… Tough ones? …easy ones??… Lighter??...darker??… simpler ones… complex issues???… Almost every type baffles us if we either don’t understand them or we don’t know an answer to them…!!!
Questions like blue or white shirt??? Morning or evening slot for gym??? Normal cheap vegetable vendor or slightly expensive Reliance Fresh??? Normal hair blow dry or permanent straightening?? …. are often simpler and easier to tackle… a bit more pondering over them can easily lead you to an answer or best you might consult someone before arriving at the decision… and lest assured that the decision is one which you are convinced at totally!!!
But then there are questions which catch you off guard!!! Questions which have more than one right answer to it… which makes you to think and think… and wherein you might not come down to any particular answer. Such questions can create havoc in your life and by that I mean that it can bring doom or bloom...You don’t know!!!!
Indeed, we are tested all the time… and life is eventually made in all the answers that we give it back…
Being a true Libran, I am blessed with highest level of indecisiveness that can not only make me one crazy human being but at times also irritates the hell out of others around me. Not able to take a quick decision gets on my nerves like anything. Not wanting to falter in anything and everything and yet making sense out of every decision is just too much to handle.
More often than not, we know answers to life’s most difficult questions beforehand...it’s only that we don’t accept them or wait an eternity in hope of finding a more better solution!!! Believe me; I never succeed in finding that other better solution but I still do the same thing every time!!! Amongst the two best options (answers) available there is always one that is correct as per my mind and the other that is correct as per my soul…and more often than not there is this whole big battlefield that goes on between them…
But now I have made peace with myself in this case...and I think everybody around too, should try my way of arriving at decisions if in any dillema...
What??? Haven’t heard about age old methods huh???
“ Simply toss a coin…wherein one side supports your mind while the other one roots for your heart…and while the coin is in the air…Your soul secretly knows what it wants the decision of coin to be…”
Try it out...!!!
Questions like blue or white shirt??? Morning or evening slot for gym??? Normal cheap vegetable vendor or slightly expensive Reliance Fresh??? Normal hair blow dry or permanent straightening?? …. are often simpler and easier to tackle… a bit more pondering over them can easily lead you to an answer or best you might consult someone before arriving at the decision… and lest assured that the decision is one which you are convinced at totally!!!
But then there are questions which catch you off guard!!! Questions which have more than one right answer to it… which makes you to think and think… and wherein you might not come down to any particular answer. Such questions can create havoc in your life and by that I mean that it can bring doom or bloom...You don’t know!!!!
Indeed, we are tested all the time… and life is eventually made in all the answers that we give it back…
Being a true Libran, I am blessed with highest level of indecisiveness that can not only make me one crazy human being but at times also irritates the hell out of others around me. Not able to take a quick decision gets on my nerves like anything. Not wanting to falter in anything and everything and yet making sense out of every decision is just too much to handle.
More often than not, we know answers to life’s most difficult questions beforehand...it’s only that we don’t accept them or wait an eternity in hope of finding a more better solution!!! Believe me; I never succeed in finding that other better solution but I still do the same thing every time!!! Amongst the two best options (answers) available there is always one that is correct as per my mind and the other that is correct as per my soul…and more often than not there is this whole big battlefield that goes on between them…
But now I have made peace with myself in this case...and I think everybody around too, should try my way of arriving at decisions if in any dillema...
What??? Haven’t heard about age old methods huh???
“ Simply toss a coin…wherein one side supports your mind while the other one roots for your heart…and while the coin is in the air…Your soul secretly knows what it wants the decision of coin to be…” Try it out...!!!
>>Being a true Libran, I am blessed with highest level of indecisiveness that can not only make me one crazy human being but at times also irritates the hell out of others around me.
ReplyDeleteVery tue. Being a Libran myself, I have confused others more than I've confused myself with the choices.
>>Simply toss a coin…wherein one side supports your mind while the other one roots for your heart…and while the coin is in the air…Your soul secretly knows what it wants the decision of coin to be…
Again if the coin falls on side that the soul fails to accept, which one do we go with - with the soul or with the coin? :P
Jokes apart, It looks a good strategy..
My strategy is simple. Go with mind sometimes and go with the heart sometimes.. but once decided, never look back and repent.. give ur decision the best and let things happen
Cheers,
Loga
c'mon der is no need to decide now na ie between soul n coin since ur soul already gave you answer... now coin making its decision is only formality!!!
ReplyDelete>>My strategy is simple. Go with mind sometimes and go with the heart sometimes.. but once decided, never look back and repent.. give ur decision the best and let things happen
well I agree with this...sometimes you make right decisions and sometimes you make the decisions right....
yeah true that the spinning the coin in only a formality.I got it.. but we tend to start thinking about it once we see that side of the coin that we do not want to see..
ReplyDeleteyou know what - incidentally my latest post on my blog is also about the decision I made in recently...
Cheers,
Loga
The state of indecisiveness is one of the worst experience one could have. During this phase you feel like you are being fired with thousands of questions and sometimes you know the answers for those questions but still something is stopping you from taking a decision. I had a struggling phase last year with the state of indecision dancing around. Then I found a solution that worked out well.... The idea is simple. Just write the question of decision in a paper and write all the possible answers that come to ur mind and heart. From that list you will be able to choose the answer that is best for you. Trust me you will feel so relieved. Then a clear picture starts to appear in front of to what to do and what not to do.... Give a try and let me know :)
ReplyDeleteAnd what a coincidence! my recent post is also about struggle of mind :)