All our life, we learn, re-learn , re-implement, re-assess and re-discover! We start off as a crawler, slowly and steadily we start trusting our abilities to stand on our knees, sometimes we fall, at times pretty badly, we cry and she tears but we keep trying..!! This is one of the most simplest first lesson which we learn as an infant- to keep trying, to keep bettering...!! Don't know, why we stop practising this lesson as we grow old....?!?
Decisions are the most important part of life which honestly we start taking very early on in our life! Which friends to make? Which tuitions to join? Which dress to buy? Which stream to do graduation in? Which company to choose post graduation? When to buy a house? Which areas to look at ? Which city to settle in? Which life partner to choose? Which proposal to accept ? and many such and many more decisions...!! Like learning and discovering, we might discover some time down the line, that probably we made a wrong decision, that probably we should have chosen something else, that probably life would have been different had we chosen something or someone else!
Honestly, its ok to feel this, its ok to get doubt, its ok to stop for a while, ponder over your decisions, make a learning and then start your journey again!! First lesson of life is very important - that no matter what keep trying..keep bettering!!!Not all our decisions would be right, that doesn't mean you stop taking decisions! Just have enough grit and valour in you to stand by your decisions and make them right! That is all that matters!! Your life is really about your choices and nothing else! You don't need to give justification to anyone for it !! It makes sense to you and that is enough...!!
There are new insights into my life..!! There are new people I am meeting, new faces I am seeing , some leave a major footprint while others just walk past me... ! Some of them make me think, some of them just bore me more... some of them enrich my life with their thoughts and experiences and while others just stay around silently on the outskirts of my life..!!! Is it scary? Yes, to some extent, but ofcourse I need to step ahead, to watch my head at times and just make a leap of faith at others!
Day on day nothing feels changed, but when I look back on life, I know everything is different!
So probably smiling at the confusion and doubts right now is the best thing to do?
Decisions are the most important part of life which honestly we start taking very early on in our life! Which friends to make? Which tuitions to join? Which dress to buy? Which stream to do graduation in? Which company to choose post graduation? When to buy a house? Which areas to look at ? Which city to settle in? Which life partner to choose? Which proposal to accept ? and many such and many more decisions...!! Like learning and discovering, we might discover some time down the line, that probably we made a wrong decision, that probably we should have chosen something else, that probably life would have been different had we chosen something or someone else!
Honestly, its ok to feel this, its ok to get doubt, its ok to stop for a while, ponder over your decisions, make a learning and then start your journey again!! First lesson of life is very important - that no matter what keep trying..keep bettering!!!Not all our decisions would be right, that doesn't mean you stop taking decisions! Just have enough grit and valour in you to stand by your decisions and make them right! That is all that matters!! Your life is really about your choices and nothing else! You don't need to give justification to anyone for it !! It makes sense to you and that is enough...!!
There are new insights into my life..!! There are new people I am meeting, new faces I am seeing , some leave a major footprint while others just walk past me... ! Some of them make me think, some of them just bore me more... some of them enrich my life with their thoughts and experiences and while others just stay around silently on the outskirts of my life..!!! Is it scary? Yes, to some extent, but ofcourse I need to step ahead, to watch my head at times and just make a leap of faith at others!
Day on day nothing feels changed, but when I look back on life, I know everything is different!
So probably smiling at the confusion and doubts right now is the best thing to do?
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